Green & Red Flags — Free Relationship Flag Check | SecretBond
Answer 10 quick yes/no questions and count the green flags against the red. Get a GREEN LIT → RED ALERT verdict, a tip, and a shareable card. Tally, Field, Scoreboard, Checklist, Traffic, or Report — Green & Red Flags by SecretBond.
Green & Red Flags is a ten-question yes/no check. Every answer lands as one green flag or one red flag, and the final tally gives a verdict from GREEN LIT to RED ALERT with a practical tip.
Ten prompts can't cover everything, so the page links to our full green-flag and red-flag guides for deeper reading.
How it works
- Answer ten yes/no questions.
- Watch the green and red flags add up.
- Read your verdict and tip.
- Share a Tally, Field, Score, or other card.
Frequently Asked Questions
What are green flags and red flags in a relationship?
Green flags are habits that make a bond feel safe — remembering what you say, apologising cleanly, celebrating your wins. Red flags are repeating patterns that cost you, like last-minute cancelling, keeping score, or making you edit yourself. This tool turns ten everyday situations into a simple green-vs-red count.
Why are green and red flags in one tool?
Because they are the same question from two sides. Counting only the good or only the bad gives you half a picture — the useful part is the balance between them, which is exactly what your result shows.
Is this a real assessment?
No. It is a quick, honest-feeling prompt set for reflection and sharing — not therapy, diagnosis, or advice. If something in your relationship worries you, talk to someone you trust.
Are my answers stored?
No. Your answers and any name stay on your device for this calculation. Nothing is saved on our servers unless you choose to share your result yourself.
Can I share my flag result?
Yes. Pick a card style (Tally, Field, Scoreboard, Checklist, Traffic, or Report) and share or download your verdict.