Should I Text Them? — Free Send-or-Leave Quiz | SecretBond
After a fight, a ghost, or a leftover crush. Answer ten honest questions about timing, motive, and their last move. Get a send-urge %, a LEAVE IT → SEND IT reading, the snag, and a shareable card. Draft, Ping, Latch, or Sent — Should I Text Them? by SecretBond.
Should I Text Them? helps after a fight, a ghost, or a leftover crush. Ten questions about timing, motive, and their last move produce a send-urge percentage from LEAVE IT to SEND IT.
When the answer is to send, Bond Studio can help you write the message.
How it works
- Answer ten questions about the situation.
- Get your send-urge % and reading.
- See the snag to consider.
- Share a Draft, Ping, Latch, or Sent card.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is this telling me to text my ex at 2am?
No. The quiz reads your answers about timing, motive, their last move, and whether you could live with no reply. SEND IT means those signals line up. LEAVE IT means they don't. Neither is a dare.
How is the send-urge decided?
Five signals: the clock (timing), why you'd send it (motive), who left the last message (last move), what happened (aftermath), and whether you'd send it sober in daylight (clarity). Low scores = leave it, high = send it. The weakest signal is called the snag.
What do Draft, Ping, Latch, and Sent mean?
Those are share-card styles for the same result — Draft is a new message compose, Ping feels like a live thread, Latch is the send-or-lock plate, and Sent is a delivery receipt.
Do I have to enter names?
No. Names are optional — leave them blank and the card reads as You → Them. Adding names only personalizes the result.
Can I share my Should I Text Them? result?
Yes. Pick a card style (Draft, Ping, Latch, or Sent) and share or download your reading.