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Green Flag or Red Flag? — Free Two-Player Game | SecretBond

Play Green Flag or Red Flag? on one device. Privately judge six fictional situations, reveal both picks, and talk about what you noticed. Free, no signup.

Green Flag or Red Flag? is a free pass-and-play discussion game for two people on one device. Pick Everyday Moments, Communication, or Boundaries & Space. Player 1 privately labels six fictional situations green, red, or it depends, then passes the same device to Player 2 for independent choices.

Reveal both sets of picks and read a short perspective note plus a conversation question for each situation. The game has no score, correct-answer tally, or verdict about your own relationship. Some behavior, such as ignoring a clear no or pressuring someone to share their location, is a serious warning sign; other situations need more context.

This game is different from the Green & Red Flags relationship tool, which asks ten yes/no questions about someone’s real behavior and creates a personal reflection card. The game uses a separate fictional scenario bank, runs entirely in your browser, and keeps both players’ picks only in page memory until you leave or refresh.

How it works

  1. Choose one of three fictional-scenario packs and start a six-card round.
  2. Player 1 privately chooses green, red, or it depends for every situation.
  3. Pass the device so Player 2 can make independent picks without seeing Player 1’s answers.
  4. Reveal both sets, read the perspective notes, and discuss what shaped your views.

What you get

Frequently Asked Questions

How do you play Green Flag or Red Flag?

Choose a scenario pack. Player 1 privately labels six fictional situations green, red, or it depends, then passes the device. Player 2 makes their own picks without seeing the first choices. Reveal both sets and talk about the situations that sparked different views.

Is this the same as the Green & Red Flags relationship tool?

No. This is a two-player discussion game about fictional situations, with no verdict or relationship score. The Green & Red Flags tool asks one person ten yes/no questions about a real connection and creates a personal reflection card.

Is there a correct answer to each situation?

The game does not grade your picks. Some behaviors, such as ignoring a clear no or pressuring someone to share their location, are serious warning signs. Other situations need context. The perspective notes invite discussion, not a diagnosis.

Can Player 2 see Player 1’s choices?

No. The handoff screen and second turn do not show Player 1’s picks. Both sets appear only on the shared reveal after Player 2 finishes.

Are our choices saved or uploaded?

No. The game runs on one device without an account or backend. Picks live only in this page session and disappear when you refresh or leave.

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